Kind of ironic that I came across this post waiting for Chase to wake up for his next feeding. It was so inline with how I had been feeling.
Here's my own response. Read more >>
I spend my life working to make a difference in the lives of others, and recently realized that I was not doing the same for myself or my family. I am not sure if it was the PPD I just went through after having baby #4 (with a tween and 2 toddlers, too!), or The Love Dare Challenge my husband and I are doing, but I came to the conclusion I just could not keep going the way I was.
I felt as if I were a gerbil in a cage going round and round on that blasted wheel getting nowhere fast, such a familiar feeling for me. The sense of overwhelm consumed me. I am very passionate about MUIB, and I do admit I have a difficult time saying no.
My life had become nothing but unorganized chaos, and I felt like a hypocrite. I needed a sign to hang on my door "Do as I Say, Not as I Do."
So, my husband and I sat down and talked. He works crazy hours too, so we came up with a schedule for the month of when I would work while he tends to the kids, when we would do things OUTSIDE of the house as a family, scheduled time off of work for me, some quality time for us, and some much needed ME time!
So far, I am amazed at the difference! Life has become more fun. I am enjoying my kids more, my job more, my home more. I am making more money, yet I am working less. I am much more productive, more rested....just more ME. I feel like I have come full circle.
Lesson learned. Just hope it sticks!
Recent Family Adventures, What Could Be More Important?
Tween and Little Princess at the Park
Little Miss and Princess Walking Along the River Trail
Little Miss
Little Man Chase, 2 months old tomorrow!





























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